Unreasonable Passion!!! Final Pull
By yooper | March 8, 2010
My friend’s Cesar’s Charity Venture is almost there…if you have not already checked it out…this is the final pull phase…GO GO GO!!!
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Life Coaching by Yooper
By yooper | February 21, 2010
Hey all,
If you follow me all on facebook then you might have noticed that I offered all my friends a session of free “life coaching”. I just had a chat on skype with some friends about what we all want our life coaching sessions and interactions to be like.
I thought it would be a good idea, to lay out some of my assumptions and choices about life, the universe and everything to help you decide if you might like to get ONE FREE session (FREE…for now).
Assumptions/Choices of Yooper
1. You are (one is) 100% responsible for everything that they (one) experience.
If you don’t believe this to be the case, and you are currently choosing to blame anyone outside of yourself for your problems, issues, roadblocks or any other forms of “stuckness”…then you might not want to get a session with me…because then we would not agree on that big point 
. Nuff said.
2. Thoughts are creative and we create our waking lives with our thoughts, desires and dominate vibration or mood.
If this sounds like woo-woo horse pucky to you…then you might like to find a different life coach.
3. We are all one.
If you don’t think you are one or at least connected with everything else in the universe, that would be a large disagreement. We can still chat and hang out, but you might want to find a different life coach.
This list is subject to change…
Ok, so if you agree with the big three, then we can probably work together. If you disagree with one or more of the above and still think you might benefit from a FREE life coaching session…then by all means let me know…what the heck it might be a hoot!
If you want to read more about my belief system check out the links below:
http://www.yoopersmith.com/archives/44 This is an old and probably out of date blog post about my belief system.
http://www.shift-your-consciousness.com/ This is my other web site, my belief system comes out in the overall theme of the site.
What is Life Coaching with Yooper?
I have been “coaching” people for years…friends, co-workers, family members, and drunk people in bars that I don’t really know at all. Here is my very simple “method” of life coaching.
1. Listen to you
Even if you disagree with me on the big three, if I am coaching you, I will listen to you have your say about your focus area. Listening is something that I practice. I don’t just listen to your words, but I try to get beyond what you are saying and listen for what you MEAN. Empathetic listening is what my goal is…to receive the meaning and to understand and empathize with your current situation.
2. Make suggestions from my practical life experience
If I can provide insights that might help you from my personal life experience, this might provide you value. I have done a large variety of living all over the world and have been through my fair-share of “stuckness”, frustration, and rough spots…
3. Provide suggestions from and insights from my spiritual perspective
Meditation? Yes…that helps everyone. Exercise and diet…not my areas of expertise…but low hanging fruit for general stuckness…but for the really BIG ROCK issues, there is probably a spiritual question that your are asking yourself and producing some sort of internal conflict. No promises, but if you can embrace a sort of faith in a power greater than you imagine you are, I might be able to guide you through some of those spirit hurdles.
Caution: A coach does not WANT to fight your battles for you!!! Those dragons are there for YOU to slay, so you can GROW…I can perhaps help you understand why the dragon keeps winning and maybe suggest which sword to try next.
Potential Benefits
1. Increased clarity on personal truths
One of my goals is to help you gain clarity about what is true for you in any situation. Once you realize what is true for you, you can move toward…
2. Acceptance of what “IS”
Regardless of the situation, internal conflict generally arises from a lack of acceptance. Once you accept where you are…and face it for what it is…you can then choose consciously where to go next.
3. Help determine what you might like to move toward
Many issues in life arrive from a lack of a clear goal, desire or intention. What do you want? Since we are creating our life experience, we might as well learn how to choose consciously.
4. Practice in letting go of your desire and trusting in our source
Many times, our perceived desires can trip us up…and letting go of needing all the answers and trusting that your source will allow you to have any state you can create learn to create inside of yourself. This is where we learn to act as if we are what we desire…while allowing source some space to create the best possible life. There is no success…there is no failure…only results.
5. Learn to Forgive yourself and others
If we accept now as is, and create the future, we can also learn to “revise” the past…not the facts…but what the facts mean to us NOW. Everyone has a lifetime of limiting beliefs. I can help you release those limiting beliefs and install new believes about your past, so you can forgive your past self. Once you learn to forgive yourself for your past (whatever it is) you can move into a space that will allow you to forgive “others” in your life NOW.
Not so frequently asked questions
Are you psychic?
Yes…but I am not giving you a reading. Everyone is a little psychic…and all communication is psychic…I use my intuition to guide my suggestions and questions. I won’t be talking to your spirit guides…unless they shout at me and knock me down with a message…that is highly doubtful…but if it happens…I will charge you extra for the reading
You are really good! Can I pay you for another session?
You betcha. I am currently working out a pricing plan…stay tuned!!!
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Unreasonably Passionate!!!
By yooper | February 9, 2010
I love to be unreasonably passionate everyday. My friend Cesar is working to help people, that’s all I needed to know!
“The only way to keep something is to give it away” — A Course in Miracles
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Superbowl Weekend Epic Weekend Video (WHO DAT?)
By yooper | February 5, 2010
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Open and Shut….Well, Open is better
By Jindai Hideo | January 18, 2010
Open and Shut… Well, Open is Better
Recently, I was talking with a friend and I mentioned that I think that they are rather closed minded about certain things. This person vehemently denied it, and even said they I had offended them by the accusation. Simply stating that they didn’t like something is not the same thing as being closed minded about something, and offering other excuses and denials. I was getting too tired to listen to all of this, so I decided to end that conversation before it became a full argument and went to bed.
I do recognize that something not being to one’s taste does not automatically equate to being closed-minded about that thing, however, it doesn’t make you exempt from that either to simply say you don’t like it. So, how do you know if you are closed up in the mind about something? I’ll try to answer that for myself as I write this, and maybe it’ll even make sense when I’m finished.
“Intolerant of the beliefs and opinions of others; stubbornly unreceptive to new ideas.” (1) In regard to my friend, this does seem rather harsh, considering the context in which we were speaking, but it’s still accurate for the most part. I think if we take the formal language out and simply say “Not ready to receive new ideas,” I think it’s still within that definition, yet not quite as harsh.
The funny thing about a closed-mind is that it is often not only closed to new thoughts, it is often closed to itself as well. It is closed to new thoughts and anything that threatens the status quo. So trying to change a closed-mind is more than simply telling a person they should try something new, because ‘obviously,’ they won’t even understand the reasoning for your request. And heaven forbid you should mention they’re not even willing to try, because they’ll get offended, more than likely.
Now, I understand how some people can say they don’t like Football, for example, and trying to change a mind on that activity is a very chancy proposition. You can’t say “Oh, but the strategy, the drama, the spirit will move you!” For not every game is exciting, after all. It might be a boring defense oriented game that ends 7-10. Right, even that will turn off some football non-fans. Some people just don’t get sports, and some people do, no big deal. But if you are patient, understanding, or at least polite, a passive acceptance is possible for most people, for as Aristotle said “It is the mark of an educated mind to be able to entertain a thought without accepting it.”
The argument that “it’s just not to my taste” is a tough one, because let’s be honest, some things people don’t enjoy, for whatever reason. I don’t like Period Epics for the most part, for example. However, I’ll still watch them if recommended to me by someone I trust that knows me and what I like. Because I respect their opinion, and I’m not unwilling to give things a chance. I think that if I were to say, “No, I only like Science Fiction and Fantasy movies, so don’t bother me with anything else.” I’d miss out on a lot. Plus, there’d be some confusion. Look at Lord of the Rings. Great, sweeping period epics, although of a Fantasy era that doesn’t, or hasn’t, existed in real life, it still qualifies. Do I go because it’s fantasy, or do I stay away because it’s a Period Epic?
And heck, look at cross-genre stuff. “Outland” is a science fiction remake of “High Noon,” and if you want my opinion, “High Noon” was a superior version of that story. All those spaghetti westerns of the 60’s seem to be remakes of Japanese epics by Kurosawa and the like. (2) “Firefly” was a western masquerading as a space opera. “Alien” was a classic horror film dressed up in a spaceship. “Shaun of the Dead” was a wonderful Zombie movie done as a comedy. Heck, horror and comedy are a wonderful pairing in many successful movies, “Tremors,” “From Dusk ’til Dawn,” and “Army of Darkness” just to name a few of my favorites. Teen angst coming-of-age drama meets werewolf fantasy in “Ginger Snaps.” If I were to say I don’t like Horror no matter what, I’d miss out on some really enjoyable experiences.
Movies and shows as entertainment are not like sports. There are flavors, levels of depth, and combinations that can’t be broken down into a rulebook and played on a field. So you’d think you could convince a person to try something outside of their primary area of interest by pointing out how there’s something they do like as part of greater piece. But no, a person with a closed mind seems to just see the overall genre, and says, “Nope, don’t like that genre, never will, don’t bother me,” yet not acknowledge a closed mind.
It’s a breakdown of terminology, I think. Because in many cases, people I have known that have limited views, shall we say, are also very open in many other ways. Vote for gay rights, love dogs and cats, let their kids have cell phones early on, bed times are negotiable, and all that. They’re cool people, easy to get along with until you reach that one place where they are intractable. “I’m not closed-minded; I like skydiving, for goodness’ sakes!” The two aren’t related. “You might have several open doors in the mind, but just one closed door still prevents passage in that direction.” – Me.
The enemy of the open mind is the unreasoning fear, the unthinking devotion to an idea or theme. “When even the brightest mind in our world has been trained up from childhood in a superstition of any kind, it will never be possible for that mind, in its maturity, to examine sincerely, dispassionately, and conscientiously any evidence or any circumstance which shall seem to cast a doubt upon the validity of that superstition. I doubt if I could do it myself.” – Mark Twain. Probably the least funny, but no less true and insightful quote I ever read from Mr. Twain. Reason is the best way to learn to go beyond what you are comfortable with, to learn and grow into areas you wouldn’t have previously ventured. And education is the path toward reason. Experience leads to education, and therein lies the rub. If you are so closed-minded to refuse to try a new experience, you’ll never get educated enough to gain the reasoning to open the mind up.
So, sometimes you have to trust to other people to know you, and to educate you by proxy. That’s how I learned to like Les Misérables. Someone I respected knew I liked musicals and thought I should go see it, and so started a rather distressing obsession for a while. (I even read the Victor Hugo novel. Talk about a sweeping period epic!) If I’d told my friend back then that “There’s no way I’d like it, it’s in a genre I know I don’t like, so don’t bother,” I know I’d have offended him. But instead, I learned something rather new, and it expanded my world just a little bit more. And that helped me enjoy still more things, and helped me to learn to open my mind still more. “The trouble with having an open mind, of course, is that people will insist on coming along and trying to put things in it.” –Terry Pratchett. But it’s a good thing to let people “put things in it.” You learn to love more about the world, your friends, and yourself than you ever would otherwise.
When your mind starts to open up after a long period of strongly held ideas, you might have other issues, as Alexander Graham Bell said, “When one door closes, another opens. But we often look so regretfully upon the closed door that we don’t see the one which has opened for us.” When that happens, you might suffer under the impression that you did what you friend liked, learned something new, so you’re open to new things, when you really aren’t. You’re mourning things, and fall back into the pattern of ignoring what you just tried, and not exploring it further, so never forget that if you do learn something new, keep moving forward, challenge yourself, learn new things, and enjoy life more than you ever have before.
1 The American Heritage® Dictionary of the English Language, Fourth Edition ©2000 by Houghton Mifflin Company
2 Seven Samurai was remade as The Magnificent Seven (1960), Yojimbo was unofficially remade as the Sergio Leone western A Fistful of Dollars (1964), and even Last Man Standing (1996) and numerous other examples.
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S. 510, Food Safety Bill: Your Voice Was Heard, But There Is Still More To Do
By yooper | November 30, 2009
I thought you’d be interested in supporting the fight against misguided food “safety” legislation like S. 510. Copy and paste this entire link in your browser’s address bar:
http://salsa.democracyinaction.org/o/750/t/9828/campaign.jsp?campaign_KEY=28095
Send a letter to your Representative and Senators now!
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Anyone know how to setup a Charity? #pavlina
By yooper | November 16, 2009
I meet a new friend who is a school teacher in Nepal and he is looking to set up a chartiy for his school…does anyone have any experience doing something like this?
He has great story…He just need to get it out there.
THANKS!
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Skype Meetup 29 Nov…tentative #pavlina
By yooper | November 16, 2009
The 2nd Skype meetup with folks from CGW#1 (and one new person) was, yet again, another resounding success!
- Fewer technical glitches getting things started
- Used a “draft agenda” – meet/hug, share/feedback, commitments, hug goodbye
The next meetup should be on 29 Nov…but my schedule is a little flaky around that time…I will be camping that weekend and I might have to travel for work…
If anyone wants to volunteer to host the meetup…please let me know.
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CGW Skype Meetup #2 #pavlina
By yooper | November 8, 2009
Mark your calendars for 15 Nov at 9:00 am PST (UTC -8) for our 2nd run at the Skype Meetup. All conscious people are welcome…you need not have attended Steve’s workshop to show up on skype…there is probably a limit to the number of folks we can get talking on skype at once…but we have yet to reach that.
If you do show up, please send me an IM on skype in chat mode letting me know you want to join the conference call. If you call me and I answer, I will just have to hang up to start the conference call.
Questions?…hit me on my blog, twitter, facebook or Steve’s Forums…
CHEERS!
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1st Virtual CGW meetup on SKYPE was AWESOME!
By yooper | November 1, 2009
We had 7 folks show up for the first skype meetup!!! That is an unqualified success!!!
We will do it again in two weeks with hopefully fewer (hopefully) tech glitches to start out with…. The date time are up for grabs either Sat or Sunday…time wise…morning is best for me…but I will do my best to flex to the group wishes.
We all shared, laughed and re-kindled the connection from CGW#1…it lasted about 1:30 minutes…which seemed about right to me…so I will plan to run these not longer than two hours…too much of a good thing right
And the fantastic news is that I thought that I would miss my football game for this meetup…and was again…cool with missing the game…but turns out my game starts late this week!
The universe loves me….
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